LEARN WHAT IT TAKES TO BE OWNED BY ME.

Surrender your power to a sensual and sadistic siren. Find peace and purpose in devotion.

Lifestyle submission differs from hourly BDSM sessions where I craft a scene centered on specific kinky activities/dynamics based on a sub’s fantasies. Lifestyle dynamics for Me are a constant practice centered on ritual total power exchange, worship, investment and service.

I see the difference between subs who enjoy hourly sessions vs subs who desire a lifestyle dynamic as similar to religious individuals going to church every Sunday vs becoming a nun or a monk. A hard-earned Leather collar will be your religious garb, and kneeling at My feet will be your place of worship.

Lifestyle submission and D/s is not an easy, fast or cheap road for the eager submissive who wants to be collared by Me during a first session. A dynamic of this nature necessitates trust and investment in more ways than one:

Financial Investment - Patronage and investment is a part of a lifestyle service submissive dynamic with Me. Cash is the most tangible form of power that you have - it is not just an object or a number, but a unit of energy. I recommend consulting a professional to help craft a budget based on your means and desire to fulfil My base needs, then reaching out when you’re prepared to make Me your most expensive line item. I adore collaborative investment plans that prioritize My goals, and rejoice in showering My pets with gratitude for filling My life with abundance, ease and possibility.

Spiritual Investment - you will come to worship My pleasure above all else. your movements and thoughts will be trained towards pleasing Me and becoming a more well-honed tool for My use. I am not religious, but I do believe in the magic and the power of altered states to expand the psyche. The closest I have ever come to experiencing divinity has come to Me through total power exchange.

Physical Investment - I seek long-term dynamics where I may encourage you to reach your full potential - are you working towards a promotion? Are you mastering an instrument, learning a language, or starting a new workout routine? Let’s collaborate on the creation of a routine for you that allows Me to gently (or not so gently) nudge you towards your goals. Service is another aspect of physical investment - if you prove yourself capable, you may be assigned progressively more intimate and involved tasks (cleaning, cooking, editing My clips.) your labor frees My time up to fulfil more of My adventurous and creative urges.

Mental Investment - A dynamic of this nature should be challenging and encourage mental expansion. I love assigning literature, music and movies to My pets to absorb to better understand My interests and view of the world. I have impeccable taste in cinema, art and music, and love exchanging skillsets. Perhaps you have a degree of expertise that you can share and teach Me to be of service and expand My horizons. For example, a craft or trade, or helping Me learn your native language (I’m in need of a good pet to help Me learn and practice both German and Irish!)